I want a man who WANTS to provide for me

I don't want a man who "just" provides for me.

I want a man who WANTS to provide for me.

Feeling the difference?

It's not about paying the bill because he feels obliged to.

It's not about supporting us because "he should" as a "masculine man".

No, it's about him desiring to do so.

It's because it's a deep longing of his to provide and protect a woman.

It gives him pleasure to pick up the bill.

It makes him feel purposeful and fulfilled when he can say "baby I got you" while doing life together.

Let's remember the essence of masculine energy is

G I V I N G

However, naturally he won't enjoy this if a woman isn't receptive or open.

If she's hyper-independent, controlling or keeps an armour around her heart, this dynamic won't probably be possible.

It's the same mechanism in lovemaking with giving and receiving.

If a woman struggles to receive and surrender, she won't be open for penetration and the man is not able to give her his all.

That issue is usually connected to safety & trust. But can also be trauma or conditioning.

We can dance around in these patterns or choose to look at ourselves deeply.

Choose to relax into polarity. 

Women ask yourselves:

Am I open to receive fully? Why or why not?

Men ask yourselves: 

Am I desiring to provide and penetrate fully? Why or why not?

I used to be an angry feminist and thought that if a man wanted to give me / pay for me / support me, I owed him something and our relationship was then inequal. 

Me myself, I did a 180 degree turn (long story!) and now deeply desire a man who is a giver - and enjoys it!

Gentlemen…

I'm currently looking for 3 more men who are ready to embody their healthy masculine,  master relationships & intimacy and become a high vibrational match to a feminine high-value woman.

DM me "EXTRAORDINARY" to get the details. 

If this hits a spot - it's a sign. 

My dm:s are open.

Much love,

Anna